I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of a year but I can't take the distance anymore and I feel guilty that I am unwilling to do 'phone sex'. I also think we're very different and theres been some problems I dont want to go into and I believe we would do better as friends. I know this is going to break him and I dont want to hurt him but this has to be done. How do I go about this is the nicest way possible? He has a history of gambling and I dont want to be the cause of a relapse. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.