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[filingcabinet]

About 2 years ago, I found out my husband was having "phone sex" with a woman he worked with. He said there was nothing else and I believed him. A few weeks ago, we were at his computer when a facebook invite from her came through and we both saw it. I found out he has accepted the invitationand he is listed as one of her friends. I am very angry and hurt - am i over-reacting?

NA - Well that's the only issue, isn't it? My DH has lots of female friends. Hell, half mine enjoy talking to him as much as to me!

But this man cheated on his wife with this woman. Quite simply, he can't be friends with her. And his actions show he still has no regard for his wife.

Jeez, FC, I'm really sorry to sound so harsh. But you cannot put up with this shit. It's really just step one on a long path to shit.

youre not over reacting. he's a tawt. anagram.

but sometimes don't you just have to be friends with people on a cos i work with them basis? a lot of my friends from work i wouldn't see out of work but i am still friends with them cos they are my colleagues. i think basically what i am trying to say is it really probably doesn't mean anything and they aren't actually friends, but they do work together.

I dunno, Nappy, I think that when you have cheated on your wife with someone you work with, and she is kind enough to give you another chance, you have a responsibility to end any relationship that goes beyond what is absolutely necessary within the work place. The fact that the slapper felt oh so comfy enough to say, "hey let's be face book buddies" says to me that he's still friendly with her.

Anyway, how old are these people???

i don't think it shows he's anything other than a work colleague. as i said i have work colleagues on my facebook. i'm not best buddies with them - i do just work with them. obviously i'm the only one who does this.