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Is this a red flag and I should run for the hills?

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Sharkirasharkira · 22/05/2019 12:59

Met a guy OLD.

Had a date, went really well, slept together at the end of the night which I don't normally do but I liked him and was horny Grin I thought he felt the same.

We've been messaging since then but not a huge amount. Couple of messages per day perhaps.

He messages me today, saying hello etc general chat. Then starts asking if I've been going on other dates, if I've done anything sexual with them. I say I have been on one and he gets really upset, saying it's like I've cheated, he finds it hard to trust me now and so on.

We've been on ONE DATE! We've only seen each other in person ONCE! We've never had a conversation about being exclusive or coming off OLD or anything, is he being U and over the top about this or am I just being a heartless bitch?

Not really used to OLD but I did say I wasn't quite ready to commit yet after a string of bad and abusive relationships and he didn't seem to care just kept going on about how he had been hurt too and it's changed how he feels about me.

Is this his way of breaking it off? By making me out to be the bad guy? All sort of alarm bells are ringing at this point.

OP posts:
Closetbeanmuncher · 23/05/2019 18:07

Billy batshit!

Run!!!!

Minta85 · 23/05/2019 21:22

He sounds mentally and emotionally unstable OP. I hope he doesn’t know where you live. I would just leave it and not reply to any further messages from him.

Itsallpointless · 23/05/2019 23:23

Bloody lunatic..B for binHmm

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