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Is he interested?

8 replies

cheesecadet · 21/05/2019 18:08

Know this guy, not through friends or friendship but in a work environment.
All these happened on separate occasions.

Saying he'd seen me out and about on a couple of separate occasions, he knew my car, but I didn't have a clue what car he drove.

Confirming it was me/stating my car reg!

Putting some roses chocolates in my hand as I'm about to drive off (it was Christmas time and I think someone had given him a tub). He probably wanted to get rid!

Saw me in the doctors surgery and waited until I'd finished at the desk to speak to me, and sat down with me.

Literally stopped his car in the middle of the road as I entered a junction to wave, with a massive smile.

Winked when leaving a room I was in. (Do people wink as a friendly gesture?!)

He also gets close (but not overly close) when I talk to him and holds really good eye contact.

Any opinions please on whether you think this is friendly or flirtatious? Or too difficult to say?!

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Aquamarine1029 · 21/05/2019 18:11

He sounds interested to me.

cheesecadet · 21/05/2019 18:28

Really Aqua?
I get huge butterflies and my heart skips a beat whenever I see him, and feel like he feels the same. I don't know how to explain this but I'll try. If he wasn't interested would I be getting these feelings? Is it possible to feel like when the feeling isn't mutual?

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NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 · 21/05/2019 18:41

He definitely sounds interested!

gower4 · 21/05/2019 18:46

He could just be friendly!

NameChangeNugget · 21/05/2019 20:34

Sounds like a friendly bloke. No clear indication of anything else.

Get on the front foot and ask him out

cheesecadet · 07/06/2019 15:02

I think he's recently (not very) split up with his partner. I'd love to ask him out, but not 100% sure he has.
Any tips as to what to say to him?

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Fromablokespoint · 07/06/2019 16:28

Any tips as to what to say to him?

"Hey handsome, if you're single would you like a drink/coffee"

I found that worked on me Smile

Seriously find out if he is single and ask him out, he may say no, but he may say yes and be a great guy! At least you know at that point

cheesecadet · 07/06/2019 17:46

Fromablokespoint thanks! Do you mean ask him if he's single or find out some other way? I don't see him very often, and I can't find him on social media. I think I've found his girlfriend who says she's now single!

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