Me and my child's father have been on and off pretty much for 3 years since I was 20 weeks pregnant. And he's packed up his stuff a week ago and I begged him to stay ( and he did) however I just can't keep the thought out of my mind that we're going to split up? I've been trying to turn my diet around for the best (medical reasons) and I find myself thinking " when me and him break up I'll start" and it shocks me. I love him and can't imagine life without him, I've planned my future with him. But how do you know when enough is enough?