This is an add on from another thread that I had started earlier this week. Been seeing new guy (met OLD) for about 2 months, we talk/text every day etc. and get on pretty well when we're together, seem to have a similar sense of humour. He asks my opnion about things (decorating his house, clothing choices). He can be really caring and nice in some respects but (and this might say more about me than him) I sometimes think he's a bit laid back about things and I wonder he's that into me.
Was asked out by someone else during the week but I cancelled. I just wasn't really that into him and couldn't muster up the enthusiasm.
Went out with the current guy last night, had a very nice evening stayed at his but he didn't want to dtd as he had thrush. (Last time we had sex it was quite rough and I think this may have caused the thrush?) I was a bit worried that he wasn't turned on by me... He did pleasure me though and we had a nice cuddle afterwards. I was wondering about exclusivity anyway so asked him if he was seeing other people (no) and he asked me the same (no). As we slept we cuddled all night, he brought me coffee in bed, made breakfast while I was showering.
We were both rushing around this morning as we had stuff to do so no more serious chat. Would he ask me to stay if he didn't fancy me? Or pleasure me? I'm at the stage where I'd like to start seeing him a bit more, but should I do the asking or leave it to him?
He and I were both busy separately most of today and are home now. We've exchanged a couple of texts but I'm needing a bit of reassurance from him although I don't want to feel needy or that I'm focussng on negatiive things. Should I wait for him to text/call me? My ex has made me paranoid about this.
I'd be interested in other guys' opinions here too if you're around.