(online dating) When you met your other half were you fed up of dating amd if so how did you keep it up?

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I am and i am struggling to keep on with it...yet i know that you cant just sit in the house if you want to meet someone.

meant to meet someone tonight. someone tell me if it worth it even if we dont click...

*tell me its worth it!!

When I met DP I’d just had a break of a few months from OLD. I’d had a few short lived rubbish relationships and was sick of it and of all the same faces, so I gave myself a break and spent the summer just hanging out with friends and not stressing about dating. Went back online and there he was! I was his first online date, 5 years later we’re still very happy

that's such a nice story, to hear!! i have been dating on and off since January and feel fed up! in two minds about cancelling later!

I was taking a break from it when I met DH. I'd got in the habit of doing a couple a week and I was finding it pretty soul destroying. So when my paid membership lapsed I just left it, I could still see messages and profiles though. He messaged me and I read it but then ignored it for about 3 weeks. Eventually I decided he was worth a punt and paid for another month so I could reply. He replied almost immediately, we met about a week later and got married 5 months later!

GO!
I met DP about 18m ago online. He was my first ever tinder date and I wasn't going to go because I couldn't be arsed with all the potential fuckery. My friends convinced Me to go and he's been part of the furniture ever since.
I had no hopes and just wanted to lounge in my pjs and watch endless netflix. Really glad I went (my jeans aren't though-turns out I'm a happy eater)

I was the same. I was at the end of my tether with dating and I hated making the effort to go and meet someone if it went nowhere.
I was 27 with 3 young kids and didn't have time to waste. It's not like when I was younger and childfree, I'd at least get a night out from it, but it took planning and effort to meet up once I had the kids.
I eventually met my now husband and I knew straight away.
It was just effortless and I actively wanted to see him more and more. We went very quickly to him coming round of an evening once the kids were in bed. I think if I hadn't met him I would have taken a long break from dating.