Hi all,
Hubby and I are married 6'years and have 2 kids under 3. We've always lived in the suburbs but he always wanted to live in his rural hometown about 45 mins away from where we are now. He's from a farming background and wants to do this part time. I'd sometimes think to myself oh I could move down and all I need around me are my children to be happy However since having the kids I know for sure I'd rather be closer to amenities, choice of schools, sports facilities and both our 9-5's. We've been arguing about this constantly for the last couple of years. We're under pressure to settle somewhere permanently now as oldest child near school attending age so it's bringing everything to a head. We just cannot agree and it's making us behave very nastily to each other. It's very toxic. I can't see this being resolved :( We both love our kids to death but think the love for each other is wearing thin... any thoughts, advise, hope???