Back story.... was married for about 12 yrs, divorced 3 years ago and had a bit of a disasterous year-long relationship last year with a guy who only stayed over at my house twice (!!) but blamed his light sleeping... there was always an excuse...which hammered my self esteem.
Been seeing new guy (met OLD) for about 2 months, we talk/text every day etc. and get on pretty well when we're together, seem to have a similar sense of humour. He can be really caring and nice in some respects but (and this might say more about me than him) I sometimes think he's a bit laid back about things and I wonder he's that into me.
So, I'm thinking are we just dating, is it casual or what? He talks about the future - not our future per se but he'll say you can come and do this at mine (a longish term training thing that he has equipment for) and he has bought a toothbrush for me at his.
Is it too early to ask? I really like him but I'm afraid of overinvesting like I did with the guy last year. Someone else has asked me out. I'm not hugely interested, but also don't want to put my eggs in one basket which Im not sure how secure it is.
How do I bring this up without sounding like I want to nail him down after 2 months!!