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Getting my ex back in a long distance relationship?

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Hekinhek · 14/05/2019 20:26

So my ex and I are young and broke up because distance got too hard. We were each other's first loves and he said maybe later when I move here in two years. He's already gotten in a rebound and is in that honeymoon phase where he says all the stuff he said to me to her, it hurts like hell. At some point in life I'd really love to try again as we were great together especially since I'm moving there. I really do believe he's my soulmate, but I know in the meantime I gotta move on. What do you guys think? Any motivational stories or something? (PS: we were together for a year and a half, knew each other for a few years in total)

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Onacleardayyoucansee · 14/05/2019 20:31

See how you feel when you move there in two years.

In the meantime, you are completely free to do as you wish, just as he is doing.

Use the time wisely, and you might not even want to move closer, you may even meet someone you prefer.

Be open.

girlwithadragontattoo · 14/05/2019 20:31

In all honesty, I'd move on, he has so you i think you need to as well. From the sound of it he was breaking it gently to you that it was over.
Doesn't make it hurt any less though.

MMmomDD · 14/05/2019 22:34

Look - people tend not to end up with their first loves for the rest of their lives....
We remember them as very special. And that memory stays with us.

You’ll meet people as you go through life.
And there are no soulmates...
No just one person meant for you.
Who you are and what you need from a partner will change a lot as you go through life and learn about yourself, and mature too.
Enjoy your journey...:

And if one day yours and his part cross again - who knows - it may work, or you may just become friends who used to date.

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