I'm rather embarassed to admit that myself and DP have not had sex for 3 years. Its quite the elephant in the room. We are both female.
The first 2 years we were always doing it, then once a week, then once a month and then nothing. We are quite intimate in other ways, have a great relationship otherwise but we know we need to address the issue and get back into it.
Neither of us mentioned the lack of sex until a weekend away last week and my DP admitted that she is very low on self esteem having put on a lot of weight. She has since started losing it and feels we need to just get back on the horse.
We are going away this weekend but I am feeling really nervous about it, is this even normal?! It is the whole initiating it. It's been so long that it now feels a little strange.
Maybe we are more like friends now and that's a bad sign? Help me make sense of why I feel like this!
I think both of us are too nervous to initiate it and now its ruining my excitement for our weekend away because I am feeling the pressure.