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pregnant and feel so alone!!!

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Mumoftwox · 11/05/2019 23:14

well... where do I start me and my partner have been together for 8 years we have ds together who is 6 and dd who is 4 and I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant. For the past year or more obviously having two young kids he works full time I'm a full time student we dont get much time together. I feel like the only time he touches me is when he wants sex. I ask him to rub my back and theres always a moan or he says am tired etc, he has hardly been kind throughout my pregnancy doesn't touch my stomach show interest in the baby etc.. he halfs me in money wise for things for the baby but hasnt contributed to any of the clothes it's not about the money it's about the thought. when I tell him how I feel he always storms away this will be my last pregnancy and I just feel he has made me feel miserable throughout. i dont get any affection other when he tries to touch me to have sex nothing inbetween. I go to bed on my own most nights he probably comes to bed with me 2 nights out the month as he is always on playstation or watching something. I do love him but surely this isn't what is meant to be forever?

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coffeechoc · 12/05/2019 08:49

Sorry you're feeling alone and unsupported OP Flowers
Its an intense time and with 2 young children, him in full time work and your studies, it's a lot to juggle. Can you get a babysitter for your children to have some time alone? He might then naturally have more interest and be more supportive. Good luck over the coming weeks

Baloonphobia · 12/05/2019 08:52

Was he more interested with the other pregnancies? What you're describing is how my DH is with pregnancy except I kicked him out of the bed. No real interest in the bump or buying clothes. But very much stepped up when baby arrives. No advice on the sex thing. DH totally gave me space for as long as it took.

Mumoftwox · 12/05/2019 09:08

he does step up when baby is here and always has done, am just so sick and tired of feeling responsible for everyone its overwhelming. there is loads I love about him obvcourse however everything I ask of him has to be told rather than off his own back

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