Please bear with my over emotional post.....my finance and I have been together 3 years and have been friends for 20 years, he’s an amazing step dad to my 8 year old. I’m currently 25 weeks pregnant with a very much wanted child (for both me and my fiancé) however since being about 10 weeks pregnant my fiancé has changed so much towards me....he’s so distant, he doesn’t come to bed with me at night, he spends longer out when he ‘nips out’ to his mums or friends etc, his physical contact (even rubbing my feet when I have asked) is at a minimum unless I bring it up.
On the last bank holiday he nipped out for an hour to watch football and didn’t come home until the early hours of the morning without getting in touch and now he’s away on a stag do (5 days) and hasn’t been in touch at all since a text when he landed but has been constantly on social media. (These are both really out of character for him)
Now this last bit seems super psyco but.....pregnancy hormones......he has a snapchat account which I’ve never known him use and he’s always said he doesn’t, but while he’s been away his snapchat score has been going up loads so from research he must be sending and receiving private snapchats.
Apart from the recent stag do and snapchat issues, I have brought all this up with him and he’s just brushed it off as me being daft and says that he loves me etc.
Am I overreacting and being over sensitive or should I end things now rather than getting my heart broken closer to my due date?