I met a guy on OLD last September, he asked me out a few times but I said no, because I just got the idea that we want different things. We get along well so have stayed friends since then.
A couple of weeks ago I bumped into him and he asked me out again, said that he thinks he wants a relationship with me and that he really likes me. He made a comment about wanting me there right then and I made it clear that I don't want to rush into any sexual relationship. Although I realised I do like him so we went on a couple of dates, nothing has happened physically, and he is very shy and reserved in person.
The first two dates were within 3 days of each other and our next meeting isn't planned until next Sunday. He's asked me before to go to this specific place on Sunday, and I'd said no. Now he's asked me again and I agreed to go but I'm worried that he just wants someone to go with rather than wanting to see/date me.
Before agreeing to any dates I said I want us to still be friends if it doesn't work out. I'm struggling now with lack of clarity, I think he enjoyed the chase more. I've been careful not to get into good morning/night messages, although this morning I replied to his message from last night and he has left it on read.
I'm so annoyed that I've got sucked in by this and want to say to him "where are we at? Are we going on Sunday as friends or as a date?" But I know because he's ignored me this morning I should just leave it 😑