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What can I do?

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charliiiii · 09/05/2019 23:13

Hello!

Need some advice.

I have been with my partner for roughly a year and I want to find ways of making him feel loved.

I was in a very abusive relationship previously, to the extent of police being involved and him being charged ect. Now, my current partner has done everything in his will to put my broken bits back together, and waited and waited for me to be ready to heal and start seeing him and he never gave up and has shown me not everyone was going to hurt me and I'll be eternally grateful for that.

Everything I missed out on he has given me, my teenage years was wasted and I didn't get to do the normal teen things. So he has done it all. Festivals, holidays, bunches of flowers, dates every weekend, breakfast in bed. He's truly my best friend

I feel $100000

Now, how can I make HIM feel good!? What romantic gestures can I do for him? What do men like? What can I buy him???

How do I make him feel good and loved.

What would you do?

I am always showing how grateful I am and when we are out I always insist on buying things ect to try and make it as equal as possible.

We never argue or have any jealousy problems ect to try and cut out.

It's the nice gestures and gifts I am looking for really.

Thank you ❤️

OP posts:
dexter6000 · 10/05/2019 07:37

Just relax!
You have found gold after years of tarnish.
He loves you for you. That will be enough for him. The joy of seeing you blossom IS his reward.

ImMeantToBeWorking · 10/05/2019 10:03

If you want something cute that means a lot buy a cute little box and fill it with pieces of paper with reasons why you love him, or memories you have together, maybe some IOU (date night, massage etc.) ones. He can open them all at once or keep them for when your not around and he can be reminded of how special he is to you.

And enjoy it, you have one of the good ones!! Flowers

hellsbellsmelons · 10/05/2019 10:11

Showing love does not mean buying things and gifts.
It means showing him and telling him.
Kissing, cuddling, touching, nice gestures.
Maybe cook him a lovely meal one night with candles etc....
No doubt he already knows you love him, but keep reminding him and showing him.

charliiiii · 21/05/2019 09:23

Thank you all for your comments❤️

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