Met this guy for a date the other night.
He is super lovely, paid for everything, bought me flowers, a real gentleman.
I don't fancy him at all 
I would be happy to stay friends but I'm worried that would encourage him too much. He is SUPER keen, has offered to lend me money, take me on holiday, and so on. He even mentioned marriage and me possibly being 'the one'! We've been on one date!
It's all too much too soon and I'm a little freaked out but he is so nice and I know I'll really hurt him if I cut contact. I think maybe it's necessary though, I don't want to lead him on. I've told him that it's not going to go anywhere and I don't like him that way but he doesn't seem to be getting the message.
Never really been in this position before, no idea what the best thing to do is!