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Sherriepaul1 · 09/05/2019 10:26

Been with my partner for over two years, we have a child (I fell pregnant when we wasn't together and didn't get together until baby was born) we also want another baby or at least he does really bad. Our relationship is fine I mean we bicker a lot just like everyone does.
We still say love you ect and he takes me out a lot and does nice things. HOWEVER, sex. We used to be all over eachother and he always cuddled me, had sex with me (sometimes more than once every day) but lately he's not overly cuddly like I have to ask and he doesn't seem interested in sex. We sleep together probably once every two weeks. This isn't a huge issue for me as I understand we're both so tired when it comes to bed time ect. But I can't help but think does this mean he's going off me and not interested or doesn't find me sexually attractive. Or does this just happen when you get used to eachother and live together? Someone shed me some light lol.

OP posts:
Sherriepaul1 · 09/05/2019 10:27

Okay I lied I'm currently 20 weeks pregnant which we are both over the moon about I just don't want any judgmental comments.

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LFH1990 · 09/05/2019 13:57

I’m sure everything is fine and he’s just trying not to hassle you whilst you’re pregnant. Equally you may be needing a bit of extra reassurance and cuddling etc, reminding that he does still fancy you, but I’m sure he does, sounds like he is trying to give you space and not pester you

Myotherusernamewastakenagain · 09/05/2019 14:50

Did his lack of interest coincide with you becoming pregnant?

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