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Not a true friend

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bellaellie · 08/05/2019 22:42

I fell pregnant about two months ago. I was keeping my friend informed on my pregnancy online as she lives in another country because I moved elsewhere.

I'm aware they aren't a true friend now as today I had a miscarriage recently presumably because of high stress levels as I've had them my entire life (stress levels) but they have gotten worse recently and my so called friend was laughing at me via text (using emojis) saying periods can be irregular and that she doesn't believe I was ever pregnant.

I told her I have no reason to lie, that she is being incredibly rude and she needs to apologise and that she is not acting like a real friend but she said if I don't like her attitude there is a block button.

I used it.

She has no other way of contacting me. I don't feel like I've said enough and feel like I need to set her straight but have no idea how I would do so as she doesn't seem to care

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gamerchick · 08/05/2019 22:46

Setting her straight won't work. It'll just tell her she's gotten under your skin and why would it if it's not true.

She's not your friend and you're better off keeping her blocked.

I'm so sorry for your troubles Flowers

HennyPennyHorror · 08/05/2019 22:46

Resist the temptation. It's just not worth the stress. People like her can't be told.

So sorry for your loss.x

Pipandmum · 08/05/2019 22:46

Let it go. Not worth your energy.

Thehop · 08/05/2019 22:47

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s such a hard time, please concentrate on yourself and leave this bitch blocked xx

JuniFora · 08/05/2019 23:01

She's was a horrible person for insinuating that you're lying about pregnancy, that is a reflection of her sick mind... I'd tell her that and block her.

dragonflyflew · 09/05/2019 00:54

That’s nasty . Sorry you lost the baby.
I have ‘miscarried’ several times, the first time I was 16/17 and miscarried at home, it was horrific. I didn’t know what to do and my then (older abusive) boyfriend left me to deal with it alone so I never went to hospital and e fed up with a nasty infection.
A ‘friend’ at the time told everyone I’d lied about having been pregnant because I hadn’t gone to hospital.
It was a long time ago but it really hurt that people thought I was lying and I didn’t get any sympathy or support from anyone because of it.
Take care of yourself and keep her blocked.

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