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Arguing with husband

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Tasha149 · 08/05/2019 19:06

Over the last few months I have been putting together photo Albums of our family. Not only did I realise all the photos my husband took of me holding my daughter he zoomed in on her and not me. And that was only when he felt like taking a photo. We decided to gather all our photos from our phones to find he bearly took any photos within my daughters first year. He does not understand how upset I am over the lack of good photos I have had taken with my daughter. I kind of feel like I have a grudge against him. I love my family dearly but I like looking back over the past and I'm the absent mum in thd photos.

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user1493413286 · 08/05/2019 19:12

I understand why you’re upset: I think any of the photos there is of me and DD were because I asked DH or someone to take them. My DH just doesn’t take many photos whereas I take a lot

Ineedaweeinpeace · 08/05/2019 19:14

I think this is pretty normal. They don’t get it. At all.

You are not the absent mum FYI you’re the mum making the memories because you’re taking the pics. Your kids will know that as they grow up xx

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