Partner of 2 years left and changed his phone number

[Jasmine24]

After 2 years my partner told me he didnt see a future with myself, never wanted to live with my children and told me he only stayed with me to pass the time and convenience. Then he grabbed his bag and left, I tried to call him to find he had changed his number and completely cut me out of his life. I am heart broken. I was so kind to this man I feel I have been totally dis guarded, I would never treat anyone like that. He has no social media so basically has cut me off completely. Juts looking for some uplifting words x

What a horrible thing to do to you, I'm so sorry

I'm so sorry that someone you gave love and support to has treated you in this despicable way. He's obviously been planning this in a very cold blooded way for a while before he threw his words in your face and left.

He is not worth your heartbreak - though I know it will take time to realise this.

To practical things for now:

• Do you own/rent together? If it's your own place or rented then:
• Change the locks. Don't rely on him not having spare keys. If rented then alert the landlord and take him off the rental agreement
• Change all your passwords and pins: especially to bank accounts.
• Secure your social media settings. I know you said he has no SM but you didn't know what he's been planning and he may well just have covered his tracks well, eg He Changed his number so you can't contact him.

You've had a shock but you will recover in due time a). Because of your children and b). He's not worth it.

Be kind to yourself OP. 🌹

So sorry OP, nobody deserves that. Probably hard to see now but at least he didn't waste any more of your time.

Focus on your kids for now and wishing you all the best x

It's horrible but good riddance. This should show you who he truly is.

So very sorry OP. What a cruel thing to do.

Happynow001 has covered the practical side well.

Please contact a friend or relative you trust for some RL support.

Wow. Good riddance. This says everything about him, not you OP. Hope you have RL support

I feel for you OP. My ex done that when I was pregnant. Try not to dwell on why he done it. You’ll drive yourself crazy and if you do figure it out it won’t heal anything.

So sorry to hear this!!! Exactly the same happened to me years ago. My live in bf of two years ended our relationship out of the blue. I totally did not see it coming, it left me confused and bewildered. After I moved my stuff out of our appartment I never spoke to him again.... So i think i know what you are going through!!!! It is horrible. I moved to another city and had to rebuild my life. Later, it became clear to me that he must have had emotional issues and that he thougt getting rid of me would be the answer...... Very immature. I am thinking of you!!!!

What an absolute sorry excuse for a human being.

Thank god he pissed off when he did and you are not going to waste any more years of your life on this vile creature.

He has repaid your kindness with cruel words and a cruel ending.

You may not see it now, but this is a blessing and once you are on the other side of this, you will see it.

Stay strong and hold your head high OP

You will not always feel this way. You will do better, and as others have said, in time, you’ll know that it’s a good thing he’s not in your life.

But HE will always be a wanker. How dare he! I’m so cross for you!

I had an ex who said he was only with me because it was convenient. Wow how it stung! I ended it there and then, had to. It was painful but the relationship wasn’t right and I deserved better than someone who found me convenient

My heart goes out to you, but please know that you will get through this and you will be better off and happier in the future

Do not let this man back into your life ever.

So sorry to hear this OP! That’s a vile thing to do and it does not sound like you deserve this whatsoever. I hope he has to endure explosive diarrhoea whilst on a date with sudden violent coughs and sneezes. Twat!