Got a hen do coming up that has already blown the budget I told the bride I had. It’s being organised by a bridesmaid who I have never met and the bride is not part of the group.
The latest is we have been asked to pay money for a buffet.
I have Crohn’s and celiacs disease so have a strict gluten-free diet but I am also highly anxious around food.
I have told the organiser given my diet would it be best if I sorted out myself for food? She said no she will “ensure there is something suitable”. This has made me anxious. I don’t like that I don’t know what food they plan to buy for me that I am paying for. Buffets are typically awful for gluten-free food and I don’t like eating that type of food as an evening meal. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to come across as a pain and rude.