To get to the point we have some playful straps for tying each other up but I recently noticed the cushion neck part was torn and the stuffing was visable. We hadn't used it for a while and it wasnt in that state when I last saw or used it. When I brought it out and noticed it I questioned her right away and her response was it happened "while she was cleaning" I couldn't believe she gave that as an explanation but she then went on to say what she meant was that it might have happened while she was putting it away or rolling it up. I tore the opposite part of the cushion to prove it required alot of force to tear it but then she got really defensive. What do you think?