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How soon is 'too' early to start dating & Internet dating?

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Icecreamlover123 · 02/05/2019 23:35

How soon did it take you all to move on and start dating again after a relationship breakdown. I left an abusive relationship 5 months ago (together 10 years - my whole adult life! and a 3 yr old DD) although I feel emotionally i left the relationship a long long time ago.

Anyway I'm feeling my life is so monotonous at the moment, if im not looking after my DD, im studying a lot for my PhD or working. And Im feeling so fed up and lonely. Im 29 and feel like all my friends are settled down with marriage or kids and struggling to go out and socialise which is really getting me down.

So, i signed up to a dating website, which seems like a minefield!! Ive been in the same relationship for 10 yrs I havent got a clue! I feel I am far too fussy , is it too early to be doing this? Ive been talking to someone who seems nice and has asked me on a date next weekend! Which I am slightly panicking about, will people I know judge me? Any advice / stories would be greatly appreciated.

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MissConductUS · 02/05/2019 23:57

Of course it's not to soon. You signed up on a dating site and you've been asked out on a date. No one is going to judge you, you're single.

Have fun! You deserve it at this point.

I started dating again shortly after my divorce with my first husband was final. It was the best possible thing I could have done. I met a lovely man and we've now been happily married for 22 years and have two great kids.

She who dares wins. Grin

Horsemenoftheaclopalypse · 03/05/2019 00:15

Have you taken the freedom programme?

If not please do there are some wonderful men but also many many creep weirdos in the cesspool that is online dating

Icecreamlover123 · 03/05/2019 09:11

@MissConductUS thanks , i love your positive story about online dating :) most are horror stories. thank you,

@Horsemenoftheaclopalypse I havent taken the freedom programme, Ive had counselling and done lots of reading. I think I may sign up to the freedom programme though as quite a lot of people have mentioned it to me. Ive only been on the site for a few days and I have come across a lot of weirdos haha. Thank you.

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