I need some advice on what to do next.
I met a men at work just over a year ago and we exchanged numbers. We started talking and messaging each other and
he accept my offer of taking her out on a date. We talked about dates but before we could do anything we both moved jobs, me staying in London and he moved out of London.
We continued to talk nearly every night and message every day. During our late night chats he told me he had
been in a couple bad relationships which had left him hurt and he left London as it had bad memories and wowed never
to come back.
He continued to open up and I have provided as much support as I could. He has started to heal and feels ready to date again.
We arranged to meet up a couple of times which he cancelled at the last minute. I have now stopped asking to meet as I feel
guilty and offered to just stay friends. But he has said that he is interested in me and to give him time.
This sounds stupid but he has travelled into London to see friends which has made me ask myself the question why doesn't he want to see me. I am not sure what to do. He is talking about doing stuff during the summer months, but I don't think he is ready. I don't want to hurt him as he is very special and do love talking to him. Do I tell him I rather be friends or continue being patient as I do still like him?
Thank you