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Dumped/ controlling behaviour?

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mamapart · 02/05/2019 11:50

My other half just broke up with me because I'm acting like a 'slag' and acting single. Here's some context. I'm on an app that's for making friends/ finding new people. My partner is never here and I'm always alone. So when my daughter is occupied otherwise I talk to people on the app. And when I'm suffering with anxiety and can't sleep off a night and everyone else is asleep I go on the app and time gets away from me. For this I am told I am acting single and like a slag and he's fed up with it. I deleted the app and he's still mad with me. He hates the things I do like my diet and stuff because he's worried about my health but he does stuff that concerns me and I feel we argue all the time. He's now saying he doesn't know what to do about us. There's been so much leading up to this; arguments, hints of him being just like his past self and I'm practically begging him to stay. Also I'm fully aware of the fact I'm not innocent and can be a nightmare. Please just any advice.

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HollowTalk · 02/05/2019 11:51

He sounds horrible. Why is he never there?

Thehop · 02/05/2019 12:04

Sounds like you should go your own separate ways.

Bananalanacake · 02/05/2019 14:59

does the word dumped in your title mean you're not together anymore. I hope so.

Shoxfordian · 02/05/2019 16:14

He called you a slag
Game over

mamapart · 02/05/2019 20:00

He did dump me; but said sorry and we seem fine now

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cosmomartini · 02/05/2019 20:36

Dump him, out of interest what is this app? I am always alone too

mamapart · 02/05/2019 22:09

@cosmomartini
Its called Yubo

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cosmomartini · 03/05/2019 00:36

Thank you. You've done nothing wrong by just trying to get to know people and make friends. Flowers

PickAChew · 03/05/2019 00:40

Good riddance.

Hawkmoth · 03/05/2019 00:53

He doesn't seem to like you very much. What's that about?

mamapart · 03/05/2019 05:06

@Hawkmoth

I've no idea. We seem to be fine now but he just gets frustrated when I'm up all night.

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