Hello everyone,
So I was on tinder a few weeks ago and happened to see an ex-coworker who I secretly had a little crush on and possibly he found me attractive as well. I liked him and he liked back, and then I said “Just wanted to say hi”. Anyway we had a little conversation and he gave me his phone nr as is easier for him to text instead tinder. He said he was happy we connected and asked me out like that night, i said i can’t that specific night, anyway all good we didn’t speak for another week, I didn’t want to text first. And then he is like hi how are you blah blah asked me out again and we agreed on date and time one week from that day. 3 days later he texts “i have to postpone getting together I didn’t realize it was my moms birthday that day” and haven’t heard nothing from him, that was a week ago.
I guess he is not interested or I’m assuming he is seeing someone else, but I mentioned that us hanging out would not be necessarily a date, like he called it.
Anyway I do want to go out with him but how should I respond if he texts? I won’t text him first for sure