Sorry this may turn out long lol. Have posted before several times about ex, but briefly together 20 years, married 17, 2 DCs. He was abusive and controlling. He told me he was leaving 2 years ago this July. Obviously hurt the first few month but had counselling and stayed single and quickly realised it was a blessing in disguise. Got the "I met someone" from him 5 months after he left, obviously had his head turned by an OW to leave and went for the greener grass. I have fully moved on, doing OLD etc, just waiting on him filing the divorce he said he so desperately wanted a week after he said he was leaving.
Have to have contact due to teenage DCs but it is very low, practically Grey Rock. He has them for a few weeks at a time as his job takes him away for weeks at a time. We meet in a mutual place and I don;t want him to know my address. I mainly blank his WApps he sends that are full of irrelevant BS. He is due to collect kids mid May, all arranged a while ago. Tonight I get this message from him: "Would it be possible on the Sunday after I pick up the kids to meet somewhere with the dogs. I'd love to take them out for a walk, miss the mad buggers".
He never bothered his arse with the dogs, pretty much like with the kids, as I was secretary and I did everything, all vet appointments/kennel arrangements when going away etc were left to me to arrange. Many a time I was told "they're your fucking dogs not mine" and yes they are, especially now. Cheeky fecker hasn't enquired about them once since he left! I have 3 dogs, 2 old timers; one nearly blind, one with a heart murmur Grade 3/4, and a rescue dog who has issues. They are so protective of me now I think they would probably rip the fecker's face off if he came near me/them, they are not used to a male being around at all. What is the twat playing at and why did he think in a million years I would say "yep sure, no problem". He is 100% deluded if he thinks I would let him anywhere near "my fucking dogs". I don't know whether to blank him as usual or just respond with on word (that would be the word "no")