Name changed for this. Been going through a difficult time with DH over a long period of time which I’ve posted about before. Culminated in a hideous holiday last year where he sulked for days, wouldn’t speak to us, said some horrible things & basically brought me to the brink of calling it a day after 20 odd years of similar behaviour. I’m still here, however, as DD has exams this year & I recently decided that another holiday would really test if he’s changed after all our discussion.
So far we can’t even get as far as agreeing a duration - I’m saying 7 days as I secretly feel if things are bad it’s shorter (& I prefer a week as I get easily bored). He says he can’t relax enough unless we do at least 10 days & isn’t prepared to go anywhere for as short as 7. So it’s his way or no holiday it seems. Not sure if I’m being selfish or he’s just showing again that he hasn’t changed at all.