DP and I have been together for 10 years and have no children (he has an adult child from a previous relationship). Earlier this year I became pregnant whilst taking the contraceptive pill and due to context we made the decision to terminate the pregnancy. Unfortunately this is the second time that this has happened during the course of our relationship. It is not the easiest thing to go through and most recently resulted in some really unpleasant physical complications. Further to this last incident we agreed that we would be doubly careful when being intimate and that DP would 'pull out' as he did not wish to use a condom (I am currently taking a different pill and am also on a waiting list for tubal ligation so this is not a long term measure). Anyway yesterday we were intimate and he did not pull out. I have subsequently taken the emergency pill as a precautionary measure. He has apologised (after initially telling me that I should have reminded him) and I have tried to be rational as he has previously had difficulty with delayed ejaculation so perhaps he did forget but I can't help but feel that he has been really irresponsible. If I am honest with myself this has just compounded my long standing feelings that DP does something which has consequences and I am left to sort whatever the consequences are out. There is a long backstory which I won't bore you with but please could you tell me in relation to this specific incident am I being unreasonable?