Lazy partner

[Indirasg]

How do I get through to my partner that thinks he has the right to have a lay in everyday despite having 2 small children and I deal with them during the night (he never gets up to deal with them at night either) . My partner works 3 long days a week 12hour shifts but then have 4-6 days off after. He has a lay in everyday (wakes up 2-3 hours after us) , no matter how much I make a fuss , argue , talk ,negotiate on taking turns . We get no where because the next day he does the same thing all over again . The worst thing about it , is he gets so angry that I'm annoyed and starts throwing , slamming things as well as calling me every horrible name you can think of . I don't know what to do .

Realise he's a lazy verbally abusive bastard who a crap dad and is trying to physically intimidate you would be a start?

Why are you with him?

Are you Sam Faiers OP?

Why on earth did you have the second one? I'd throw him out for treating you like shit , at least then you'll just accept you won't get a lie in for a while longer

Sounds like you have a horrible man child!!

Send him back to his mother for retraining!!

No one has to put up with name calling!! Throwing of things or any kind of verbal or physical abuse!! Totally not on!!

You cannot change him. He is verbally abusive, manipulative and will not see your point of view.

Hes calling you names and throwing stuff. He needs to go.

Its unlikely that the situation will improve. He's an ungrateful selfish partner. Years of this sort of thing will just build resentment. Cut your losses.

Doesn't sound like a partner, sounds like a spoilt child.

You have accepted long enough to have 2 children to other him, why ? Do you think so little of yourself ?

Also think about the example you are setting your children.