I've been with my partner for 4 years and and I have felt for the past year or maybe more that something is missing. I posted a few months ago about him possibly being on the spectrum. We get on really well as friends and spend a lot of time together as we have shared interests and friends. However, the physical side of the relationship is lobsided with me always having to initiate and we don't do anything romantic together. Even just little things like back rubs or going for a meal, hes just not interested. I could go on. Anyway, recently I started a new job and I have really clicked with a guy from work. Nothing has happened between us but I can't stop thinking about him. I'm getting to the point where I feel I should maybe discuss it with him. Or would that ruin the friendship. Has anyone been in this situation? What did you do. It's obvious to me that I am interested in thos guy as there's something missing in relationship but at the same time my partner is a great guy who would never intentionally do anything to hurt me......its just how he is.....