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Why has he mates with me on tinder?

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locketsprocket · 27/04/2019 13:15

So did post about this at the time but towards the end of last year I went in a date, fantastic time, definitely chemistry etc and we arranged to meet again, kept in contact etc, couple of days later he was off to meet mates for drink chatted as usual until he went then total radio silence.. really strange

So few days later was talking to my mate and told her she asked to see picture of him and turns out that I in fact knew him and he was really good mates with my exh going back 15-18 years ago, though they are not and haven't been in contact probably at least 15 years, was shocked as obviously I meet this guy before and had arrested functions he was at but didn't recognise or make any connections and friend said that he was out with so and so (she saw on Facebook) and obviously the dates come up in convo and he's shown them picture and reset have said that's @@@ ex wife, friend also thought that with that group it would be total no go

So back to now he popped up on tinder and I just liked honesty thinking we wouldn't match because he clearly would've like me... but he has!

Why would he bother matching with me given what happened 6 months ago?

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NameChangeNugget · 27/04/2019 15:17

Maybe he had an offer that he saw better potential in at the time? Either that or he fancies sex?

Sounds dodgy regardless

Doesitevenmatternow · 28/04/2019 00:24

Can you clarify if you actually know for a fact he was out with friends, mentioned his date, showed your photo and got warned off? Or is that your friend speculating?

If it's the former well then, what's changed? You are still the ex wife.

If it's the latter, I'm sorry but that is taking clutching at straws to a whole new level.

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