I ended a 13 year relationship 7 months ago which realistically ended late 2016 but because of young children I stayed. I got with my current partner very quickly however we had known each other for several years before we got together. His relationship ended at around the same time and dispite what others think there was nothing between us prior to our respective separations. I have two concerns, as part of my separation I will receive a large sum of money (he is a spend thrift) and I am concerned about his interest in this. Also he still responds to his needy ex. She texts him several times per day sometimes over personal stuff and he is a mupet for responding. They have no children together and his step children are both teenagers. She always seems to come up with some drama on the big occasion eg valentines day, when we go on holiday birthdays etc. Most of the time I suck it up and get on with life but should I be confronting him about this? Words of wisdom please folks!