I'll look a fool - won't I?

[Peachsnowpop]

Long story short... fancied a guy for a while, one night it seemed he liked me too. We had a good snogging session for a few hours . Bloody fantastic. He heavily indicated he was into me. Few other snogs after that. Things cooled down over time (his choice but nothing actually said). Messages over the last year have been none. He ignored my last message (Just said hi how r u type of thing). Now tomorrow night I know hes out in our local and OMG I so badly wanna go down there ..... but I'll look a fool ?

Don't waste your precious time going to the pub in the hope that he'll become interested, as a pp said, he'll either use you or ignore you.
Also, have a read of the book "he's just not that into you", I've wasted time going after men that I thought I had a chance with, it's worth a read and has changed my whole perception of men

Yea this was me 20 years ago Don't hang on to this. The right person will be as interested in you as you are in them and it will be easy.
Go somewhere else!

You've had "snogging" (ugh) sessions of several hours with him, surely he's asked you for sex, or vice versa? What did you say?

As you mature, you’ll look back st this and cringe.

Don’t make yourself upset, don’t go

Wait...has nothing happened with this guy for a WHOLE YEAR?

Yes he will probably think you're there for him and it'll be obvious because when we really want someone who doesn't want us they just KNOW. Ever had some creep come onto you and you could just sense they liked you because they were giving off that vibe?

If you go, that is the vibe you will give off.

I think you're going to go regardless of what we all say, but just know that you have wasted a year thinking and wanting someone who has shown ZERO interest in you....a WHOLE YEAR. Please do not allow yourself to be in the same situation next year.

Sometimes we think this kind of romance (hard to get) is attractive. It's the challenge and the need to win them over because it hurts us that they don't want us. But the truth is, finding someone who actually likes you is WAY better than going for someone who doesn't care.