I've been completely blindsided this weekend. My partner is too depressed to care about our relationship anymore, we have been arguing for abound 3 months now about little things, he came off his anti depressants and has been stressed with work which has just all blown up. We decided to live apart but still be together, now he says he cares about me but isn't sure if he loves me. He doesn't want to be together anymore, he just wants to be alone, but he says he still wants to be friends. I can't help but hope that he will snap out of it and realise what a huge mistake he is making, but I know I can't live that way forever - I haven't showered, eaten properly, slept properly in days. He has moved out into his sisters spare room for now but hasn't taken all his stuff which doesn't help as everywhere I turn I'm just reminded of him. We've been living together for a year, and although I've had relationships before him I was never in love, I've never felt this bad, I feel sick as if I have been punched in the stomach. He was meant to be the one that comes along after all the bad ones, the one I wanted to build a future with. Now the rug has just been pulled from under me and I am so lost and confused, it was all so sudden, basically overnight, though he says he has felt this way for a while. It didn't seem like he was emotionally checked out or anything though, we were completely fine all weekend until Sunday night (which also happened to be his birthday) and he just said he needs to be honest with me, that he's numb to everyone and doesn't know how he feels anymore. What do I do now? I just want him to have an epiphany and come back, but I don't think he will and if he does it may be too late by then. Everyone just keeps saying that ill meet someone else but that's not helpful to me, I want my loss acknowledged, not just to be told that eventually I'll be fine.