Hi,
I posted a few weeks ago about my husbands affair and I'm back again.
Last week our son (12) found out in a horrible way that my ex had moved the ow into his house. He has never even sat them Down to tell them why our marriage was over or that he was in a relationship with her. We just find out ourselves.
Anyway I confronted him and he moved her in 3 weeks after we separated. I found out about his affair and kicked him out, he begged for a week to come back but I wouldn't believe his lies and he's still lying.
He barely sees the kids only when he feels like it and when he does he's always late. He's now saying whenever the kids want to see him he'll ask ow to leave and if they want to sleepover she'll have to go home for the night.. They have told him they will never go in there and he doesn't seem to care. Says he misses them so much but yet he's acting like that.
We has such a brilliant relationship and family life together that it's still all a shock and how could he move her in so fast I'll never understand. He's turned into the biggest prick I have ever met. Taking her away for our anniversary night. Why the hell would he even do that, and told me he's deleting all my messages and our pictures. I have now blocked his number, I can't be dealing with that shit. He's doing the exact same things with her as he did with me, It's like he's living the same life just a different person. It seems to me everything is moving way to fast. He's 40 soon, she's 25 and a graduate. We were together 19yrs and lived a very happy life, done so much together. He says he wasn't unhappy. Our kids are 12 and 17 so we had so much freedom and so many plans for the future and this year alone
I hope he lives to regret it and she dumps his ass and he'll live a horrible lonely life..