One Night Stand to Relationship

[onenightonly21]

So, I had a one night stand a few weeks ago, didn’t expect to see the guy again. Although now I seem to see him out quite often! For the first couple of times I ignored him, then I decided I should say hi as we do have mutual friends. Then I went out on Thursday with the girls was not expecting to see him, had a bit of a wild one. My parents had my DD for the weekend. He was out, we had a weirdly lovely night..: spent most of the night with him, chatting and joking. My friends eventually got me to dance with them and about 20mins later the guy texted me asking where I was? Then he called but I didn’t see either until the morning after. I’m not sure how to be around him now... I think I might like him but not sure if he just wants to be friends with benefits ?! Any advice. Should I message him? Ask next time I see him or just play it cool?

I would message him, you have nothing to lose

Depends
If the only time he's messaged you is when you've been out, I'd say he's looking for someone to go home with

I'd play it cool, if he's interested he'll make an effort to get your attention

Are you 15?
Why did you ignore him when you saw him out after you had sex with him?
I’ve nothing against a ONS, but I wouldn’t fuck someone I would even want to say hello to afterwards

You don’t like him. You didn’t even want to acknowledge him. The only reason you’re interested now is because he’s shown interest in you (though to what extent, you don’t know). Leave well alone.