Hormonal, having a moan... feeling slightly crazy!

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Im 20+4 weeks pregnant, my First child... I was told for years that I was unable to have children, then this little miracle came along and I couldn't be happier :D... but ever since I've found out I was pregnant, my friends have seemed to have all disappeared which I don't understand as they all have babies or toddlers themselves, I have been with them all through their pregnancies and their children's lives and now all of a sudden nobody seems to care AT ALL.

Also my partner has just started a new job, working away 4-5 days a week + im really struggling... the money is great and I know hes doin it for me and the baby, but today hes finished work, gone straight to the pub where he is.. and I've had one text off him, I told him the baby hasn't moved as much as he just said 'the baby is fine dont worry' so on top of already been a hormonal bugger, he couldn't care less.. he's not home until Friday and if he's not going to bother all this week, its just not very nice is it? just having a good old moan, we all need it... just someone tell me i'm not crazy and this is all a part of being pregant!! haha

Hey you,
Hope you're still on here somewhere.
We do need a good moan every now and then (more often when pregnant - like every effin day!!!)
I feel you, my situation is a bit different but I'm really struggling with my hormones and depressive episodes - yet everyone tells me its normal so i'm here to tell you the same. YOU'RE NOT GOING CRAZY ITS NORMAL
In all fairness what you wrote about your partners behaviour is not very nice at all, especially now that he is away he should make you feel supported via calls messages etc. Not to put some crazy expectations in your head but at least the minimum of supportive behaviour would be nice.

Anyways, if you wanna have a chat and a good old moan about everything and everyone I'm your gal

take care x

Thank you so much for replying, when I got no replies I thought 'definitely crazy'.
I hope you are okay also and the same foes for you, welcome to message me.

Truthfully I think i overreacted about my partner from the hormones, after I posted this he called and made a huge fuss and hasn't stopped yet haha.😂 I'm sure he was just being a man and I was being a being a hormonal ptwgnsnt lady.

Thank you again gal xx

I literally saw this post, and I could relate so much so was really hoping you haven't given up having no replies and will still have a look here haha.

Aww bless you, as overreacting and horrible we may be we have a really really good excuse !
I hate myself at times, being so sensitive, because its not like me, and my husband has been understanding BUT NOT UNDERSTANDING ENOUGH haha. I don't know if there is anything he could do now for me to say he is doing well enough to be fair. haha

P.s I tend to overreact and when I get my husband to a point when he's fuming I calm down and tell him to not overreact haha

Hope you guys work it out, and stop the fuss haha :)

Oh and in regards to friends disappearing , tell me about it,
I actually had someone cancel and invite to an exhibition with her when she found out I was pregnant because she decided to take someone else (I guess I'm not so fun anymore now that I can't drink no offense taken of course haha )

Like I said Absolutely Normal haha xx

Haven't given up, just been pacing myself with these hormones... they really can be a nightmare haha!!

yes we have got a excuse, and no offence to men... but they can be soooooo annoying sometimes!! they just have no idea how we can feel at times!!

Thank you!! we are good atm, he works a lot so I get my own time, which I suppose is good!! especially when i'm like a little devil atm!

Oh, that's awful!! we are pregnant, not inhuman! just because we can't drink doesn't mean we are not fun anymore! all my friends have children that's what I don't understand, you'd think they would be more understanding seeing as I remember them all telling me their friends left them and I WAS THE ONLY ONE who stuck by them.... now im pregnant they can't be bothered! doesn't make sense to me haha!! xx

I just typed up a whole reply to you and the entire thing deleted on me. arghhhh!!! haha

Completely get that,not understanding enough... some days I love him soo much I feel like my chest in going to explode, other days he only has to breathe a certain way and I turn into a little devil ahah!!

Thank you again