Name changed for this.
Have been seeing dp for almost a year. He's been the ideal boyfriend apart from the fact that he's hugely unreliable - so he will make dates then back out of them etc. This week is my birthday - he has known the date for ages but told me last week he couldn't come out as a friend of his had booked his stag do that night. He said he would see me the night before.
I asked him yesterday whether we could confirm plans and he didn't respond and just chatted about other things.
I asked him again today and he said he would have to wait and see what was going on :( and he could confirm tomorrow.
I just flipped out and said something had changed between us (I sent a long message, I know this is always a mistake but I was upset). Rather than reacting in a nice way he has just told me I'm obviously mad. I am pre menstrual and feeling a bit weepy.
I'm not wrong am I? He should be making more of an effort? I'm really not mad but very sensitive to being called that as my family have an enormous amount of mental health problems (he doesn't know this) so it's a touchy subject for me.