I have been seeing a guy for about 1.5 months. We had a brilliant first date, messages turned fairly flirty and sexual from both parties and we DTD on the second date. Since then most of our time together is at his place as I currently live with my parents whilst my marital home sells (We are both separated). We seem to have gotten into a pattern of I drive up to his, we eat, watch movies or tv and then sleep together and then I leave in the morning.
We message eachother loads and he declared feelings for me pretty early on. But I've noticed we talk a lot more via messaging than we do in person. Is this normal? I'm normally such a chatty person, but I notice I'm unusually quiet around him.
I find him attractive, but I feel like I'm getting mixed messages. When we message he is very affectionate, but not so much when we're together. I am beginning to wonder whether I am a pleasant distraction more than anything.
Eventhough he is 35 and has DC, he is extremely immature. He has taken to talking dirty constantly and gropes my backside and boobs constantly. I have told him I'm not into that, but he continues to do it. I'm beginning to feel like a piece of meat.
Have you ever had it where you feel like you click, but something isn't quite right? I didn't realise how much weed he smoked either. He seems to rely on it to chill out.