I have recently separated from my partner. We have a 3yr old DD. My partner was very controlling and had explosive anger issues whenever I tried to stand up for myself or do anything that didn't involve her. I am worried about leaving my DD with her because of this but I didn't have a lot of choice.
Rather than let me leave she called up the police and had me arrested. She has weaponised the police before and she is v good at telling stories. She told some very bad ones about me and my DD to try and make sure I couldn't ever get custody.
All bail conditions have been dropped so I've been trying to contact her to get my stuff from her house and arrange contact with my DD, but she has blocked all my messages and refuses to even talk to me.
I am talking to her mother but she can't do much as she is worried she will piss off her daughter and she'll break off contact with her again. She found out my ex partner wants a bag that she gifted to me back and is refusing to give my stuff back until I give it back. She's refusing to even discuss access to DD for me with her mum.
Really not sure what I can do in this situation.