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Call from a maried GF at 11pm. WWYD?

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Inexperiencedchick · 17/04/2019 12:41

So I was at my BF’s yesterday and he got a call at 11pm from his friend. She is married and has a child. Nothing urgent in the call, just a chat...

WWYD?

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Feckers2018 · 17/04/2019 13:28

No you're not asking too much. Doubt I could stand him talking to me like that. And its only the beginning. Get rid before you get more involved.

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Inexperiencedchick · 17/04/2019 13:29

To be honest I stopped it today due to his little comments I found rude... Nothing to do with a friend, and apologies for starting a thread with that topic. Just tried to analyse why he started allowing himself to be rude, hence ended up creating a thread.

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Youmatter · 17/04/2019 13:31

Aw don’t apologise!

Just see it for what it is.. an experience.

Use it to boost your confidence! You walked away because you deserve better.

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Inexperiencedchick · 17/04/2019 13:32

In terms of sex drive, he would have sex anytime. I am happy to have sex too, but not as much as he is eager to have.

He is not as bad as he comes across here. But I’m hurt with all of this.

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AmICrazyorWhat2 · 17/04/2019 13:37

You're well out of it. You clearly have the self-respect to realise when someone isn't treating you well and put a stop to it- that's fabulous!

Go out there and find someone who treats you properly, don't settle!

Progress2019 · 17/04/2019 13:41

There are nice men out there, but he’s not one of them. Some people get a buzz from putting other people down. He’s shown you what sort of man he is, and luckily you’ve realised quickly that you’re worth more. My friend was with a man like this, and stayed with him for 27 years, as she thought she deserved it. Shes divorced now and has met someone kind.

TheGrapefulDread · 17/04/2019 13:41

You can stop any relationship, any time, for any reason: trust your own judgement. I hope your tummy feels better today. Flowers

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Inexperiencedchick · 17/04/2019 13:52

Thank you for all your kind words and support. 💐

This place is always the place to come and talk and see the light through.

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lisamac28 · 17/04/2019 14:10

I'd mind my own business

What kind of reply is thatHmm ? Such a silly thing to say, of course it's OPs business.

“I dumped my ex because she was stubborn and wouldn’t do what I ask...” OP I would dump him for saying this, never mind anything else. He's trying to 'train' you.

VeronicaDinner · 17/04/2019 15:07

No, random phone calls from friends are not other people's business, even your partner.

But that's not really the issue here.

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Inexperiencedchick · 17/04/2019 15:09

Lisamac28 he has a habit of bringing up an example if he wants you to understand. Hence him talking abt his ex.

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