After looking for a while I've just been offered a new job, which I'm very excited about.
I'll try not to drip feed but give as much info as possible.
During the application process I applied for a few jobs, as you do.
Although I have secured a role I've been offered a 2nd interview with a different company, which I will attend later this week.
The 2nd job which I may not get, of course is at DH's company.
Even if it wasn't with DH's company I would go to the interview, although I'm very happy with the new role I've already been offered the job at DH's company pays more than 25% more for a very similar job description, so in any circumstances I'd have to consider it.
Thing is, I have a niggling doubt. DH persuaded me to apply to his company, we wouldn't be in the same department and he would be one grade senior. Day to day we probably wouldn't see that much of each other but he wants us to commute together and spend lunchtimes together.
I am very independent and value my own thinking time. My reservation is not about DH's company or working for them, rather it's a gut feeling about DH that I can't quite put my finger on. Sensible as it is to go to the 2nd interview for the 2nd company DH is steering this.
DH is my 2nd H and yes, you've guessed it, ex H was EA and controlling so I might be projecting hugely.
What does anyone else think?
Hope I've this is enough info to explain the situation but do ask questions.