My partner is a cheating drug addict

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I've been with my partner almost 5 years I moved out last week as he had been really bad on drugs (class A's) I spent Thursday night with him and left on Friday night as he was avoiding spending time alone with me so when i left he kissed me and told me he loved me and we had a good time together on the Thursday night. He was drinking with his mates so he promised he would call me when he got home to his flat, I heard nothing at all so I got really worried and ended up getting the police to take door off as I thought he was dead in his flat. Turns out he was in there with another female!! when I seen he was ok I ran to him and said I thought you were dead, seen the girl out the corner of my eye sitting on his sofa wearing his jumper. He had marks on his neck and top of his arm which looked like live bites!!! I'm absolutely beside myself. I'm so upset. He then made out like we had been fighting and ordered me to leave his flat!!! Advice please??

Never ever contact him again

What "advice" are you looking for ?

Because the solution is right there in front of your eyes.

Move on. His a cheating druggy and your worth more.

Stay away from this “man”. He’s only going to bring more pain and heartache your way and will always choose the drugs over you.

Cut him out of your life, imagine if this was a friend of yours and this was happening to them and the advice you would give them, you would say stay away.

Focus on you, building a life without him and finding someone when you’re ready who treats you with love and respect.

Also, I wouldn’t call him much of a partner. Sounds like he’s only interested in himself.. that isn’t a partnership. You will get through it but you need to cut him out.

He’s a drug addict, a liar and a cheat.

Why waste any more of your time worrying about a selfish loser?

The girl wouldn't even bother me. Do you really want to be in a relationship with a junkie?

I'm also a dug addict but I'm stable with a methadone script..... I just struggle to breath and cope with the situation and it's really affecting my mental health. I've never felt pain like this before, I love him and always always go back to him no matter how hard I try!!

Even more reason to be away from him if you are trying to get yourself clean.

It might help to look up 'co-dependency', 'abuse cycle' and 'narcissistic personality disorder' as these areas may be relevant. Perhaps even 'triangulation' which might be a future issue you will have to deal with if you go back to this ass.

He clearly isn't a good person right? Sometimes we end up just being drawn back to what we know, for the stability...but in actual fact, they are what cause the instability in our lives in the first place. He is like a drug, and you need to get clean of him. We confuse obsession and brainwashed need with love.

I'd say if possible, move away.

Good for you for trying to get clean. He's just going to continue to drag you down though.