My DD needs her passport renewing and is being very difficult about her passport pictures which you now have to take yourself on an app. I'm tired of her whinging about them and have helped her on numerous occasions but the pics are never good enough. She started again last night and asked me why I was being such a cow and shouted "she's such a cow'! I asked her if she just called me a cow and she said 'yes'. We're not a swearing family and so I asked her dad to have a word with her. He was in the next room and clearly heard her but said to me' I didn't hear anything' . My other daughter told him what she'd said and he ignored her. He moved his hands towards me as though I should go away . I told him he was unbelievable. E thing is, she was upset and can get very stressful but she said it in front of my stepson who is visiting but it was him not siding with me tat hurt the most. If only he'd just said not to talk to your mother like that or similar I'd be fine, but he made me feel as though I deserved it, which I really don't. I'm a housekeeper who never gets taken out and gets a freebie box of chocolates which he said he doesn't like, as a gift after he'd been away for 3 weeks abroad. My question is, does this happen to anyone else and WWYD??