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My partner finally left for the last time

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Jasmine24 · 12/04/2019 10:28

My partner of 2 years on and off left for the last time tonight. He has left over 20 times when things don't go his way. About 11 mths ago I caught him texting another women which I forgave him for but could never really get over the trust thing. We were seeing a counsellor who told me I could ask him if he had been texting any girls and he was suppose to empathise with me. While tonight when he asked and I didn't feel empathise with he said you know what I'm done, shook my hand and said it's over and walked out. I feel sad but I feel a sense of relief. A person who always walks out on you can't be someone who can stay in your life. Every time he has left I have chased him back but I won't be doing that this time. Kinda the straw that broke the camel's back. Hurt is an understatement. Need some uplifting words ladies. No friends and family here. X

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Jasmine24 · 12/04/2019 10:29

I had even surprised him at his work today with a total car clean from a cleaning company all paid for and he just leaves me like that

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hidinginthenightgarden · 12/04/2019 10:33

Please stay away from this guy! He obviously thrives on walking out on you and having you beg him to come back. It clearly gives him an ego boost whilst further damaging your feeling of self worth.
You are worth more than this. Do not let him back in your life!

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 12/04/2019 11:40

Why on earth would you take him back 19 times?

It sounds as though you have very low self esteem. Let him go... you deserve better. Focus on yourself for a bit.

How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

hellsbellsmelons · 12/04/2019 14:31

Could you take yourself off for the weekend to visit family or friends?
Might be a good idea to get some real life support around you right now.
I really hope you stick to this.
He is one cruel asshole and you know you deserve far better.
Keep busy!

magoria · 12/04/2019 14:49

Christ almighty he has left 20 times in 2 years. That is nearly once a month.

Life is too short for that crap. Plus the other stuff on top.

Learn from this and don't put up with this again.

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