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Is this too much? Or not right?

28 replies

AlwaysSunshine81 · 08/04/2019 22:20

Been seeing someone for 18 months, had a break at Xmas but got back in contact. He’s never involved me worh his child (4) burn occaisonally he’s popped round to mine for a cuppa when my children are here (16, 12 and 4) or in the evening.
Our evenings consist of dinner drinks and sex most of the time.
Sometimes he takes hours to reply to me, on the rare occasion he’s quick to reply.
We never get together with kids but when we split up in October time last year he said he wanted to... however he’s had his child for 5 nights and not asked to get together. It’ll be a morning text of hi how’s you what u doing and then nothing until evening.....
I don’t really know what I’m saying or what I’m wanting but I don’t get the whole thing

OP posts:
gamerchick · 18/04/2019 22:46

Booty call with food thrown in.

Take sex off the table and you'll see what he's about

Justmuddlingalong · 19/04/2019 09:10

Stop being so available. A healthy relationship shouldn't cause you anxiety. This is neither healthy nor a relationship.

KOKOtiltomorrow · 19/04/2019 09:13

FWB I'd say. My STBXH wasn't a texter either.....until he got with OW and somehow managed to message her 100s of times a day!

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