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Trying to understand what she means.

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Returnto0 · 08/04/2019 14:38

We broke up two months ago. It was gradual and I think she started losing interest. It was mutual break but I still love her. I asked to try again soon after and she said at the moment, no.
I was in no contact for a month until I broke it because of another reason (sort out Something else)We chatted (by text) for a while and I tested the water to see what she was thinking if I asked to maybe give us another go. I told her I realised my mistakes, that I still care for her and I miss the times we had. She replied thankyou and said I don't no know if we can. I told it's okay and I'll leave her alone. She apologised so again I said that is okay... She then came back and said, I just don't know.
I replied that I understand and I'll leave her alone.
She replied again but saying, she just can't give me an answer right now.
I said that's fine and and I understand. I left her be.
She hasn't replied since and ignored my message.
After that she has liked a picture I posted of a day trip I had on my fb page. I don't know why..probably nothing, but she hasn't done that for a long time.

What does she mean by saying all of this? Is it a polite version of no I don't want you back?

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hellsbellsmelons · 08/04/2019 15:08

It's called 'letting you down gently'
Don't message any more.
She will come to you if she wants to.
But you move on and enjoy your life.
Stop overthinking everything!

MaiaRindell · 08/04/2019 15:12

I read this differently. I think if she wasn't interested she would have stopped replying and wouldn't be liking pictures. I think definitely give her space but don't lose touch altogether.

Musti · 08/04/2019 16:54

I'm a bit confused by how many times you've asked her. She doesn't know how she feels about you.

Returnto0 · 08/04/2019 17:04

@Musti ive asked twice. Once soon after break up and then a month later. The second wasn't a direct 'take me back' just more of testing the waters

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TooTrueToBeGood · 08/04/2019 17:08

Bluntly, take the bloody hint and let her go (and let yourself move on too).

Notwiththeseknees · 08/04/2019 17:11

I think you should do as you said you would and leave her alone. She knows where you are. FFB like means nothing - unfriend her if you are feeling confused.

Returnto0 · 08/04/2019 18:39

@Notwiththeseknees @tootruetobegood

Yep trying to move on. I needed to ask. In case was any chance.

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SparklyMagpie · 08/04/2019 19:05

You've asked about this before right? If you're who I'm thinking you are, you SERIOUSLY need to let it go an move on - she ISN'T interested

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