Hello everyone, i am in a dilemma here
My partner and I have been together a year and he moved in with my son and I in December there. There have been a few issues lately with us but the main one being him not making much effort to interact or communicate with my son. Looking back now before he moved in I guess the communication wasn’t that great but I put it down to ‘it will improve over time’, but I’m just not seeing it.
Sometimes he would go a whole day without saying a word to my son even simple things like how are you? I asked him about this and he says he struggles with the communication but this is basic communication!
He doesn’t see his kids but is trying to sort that out as his ex and him don’t get on. He says he wants us to be a family & do things together etc and admits he hasn’t made the effort but wants a chance to prove he can sort it out, this is the 2nd time I’ve had this issue with him
I suggested a family holiday this year to centreparcs and his response was it’s not my kind of thing , it was a chance for us all to have fun, bond etc
Should I let him prove it? Don’t know if my heart is in it now as have to do what’s right for me and my son