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Partners kids

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Charles120 · 07/04/2019 16:03

So I have been seeing someone and found out his kids are on a child protection plan with child services. Can I find out information why this is? As he does not like to talk about his kids and his ex does not allow him to see the kids regularly.

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lifebegins50 · 07/04/2019 16:04

Why would you bother...he is not open about it, says it all.

Run

Subtledifference · 07/04/2019 16:07

Possibly an unpopular opinion but (I speak from experience) I would ask yourself if you are really honestly prepared for Social Services to start poking around in your life and/or for these kids to end up living with him.
I love my H dearly and also his kids who have ended up with us but with hindsight would never get involved with someone who had kids again, especially not with SS involved.

ILoveMaxiBondi · 07/04/2019 16:11

Run! You really don’t need to know why the children are on a child protection plan and he isn’t allowed to see them. You know enough by knowing that he isn’t.

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